Naomi Boulet

Intimacy Coach | Couples Therapist

Somatic Experiencing (SEP)

I guide individuals and couples on a path of inner transformation and healing, helping them reconnect with their full aliveness and cultivate deeper, freer, and more fulfilling relationships with themselves, others, and life.

My work combines several modalities from the fields of relational coaching and somatic therapies, with a focus on:

Conscious relationships.

Attachment styles and secure functioning.

Trauma resolution and post-traumatic growth.

Intimacy and sexuality.

Ethical non-monogamy and other unconventional intimacies.

Themes in my field of expertise that I like to explore

- Emotional regulation and inner safety

- Developmental trauma healing (c-ptsd, childhood neglect and abuse) and post-traumatic growth

- Healthy communication

- Sexual assault and sexual abuse resolution (recent or from a long time ago)

- Insecurities, trust, self-esteem and confidence

- Awakening and thriving in one’s sexuality and eroticism

- Anxious or avoidant attachment, developing a secure attachment system.

- Healthy boundaries, betrayals and repair.

- Self-worthiness, feeling and welcoming needs, desires and longings.

- Consent and sovereignty

- Self-responsibility

- Personal agency and empowerment

- Conflict resolution

- Queerness, kink, bdsm, tantra and other unconventional intimacies.

- Ethical non-monogamy and polyamory support

- Support in relational transitions (dating, opening up, de-escalating, conscious uncoupling)

- Healing from heartbreak

- Support for highly sensitive nervous systems (HSP)

- Soul essence embodiment and spirituality.

My clients are:

- Couples desiring to thrive in sexual and emotional intimacy, communication, secure attachment, and skillfully navigating differences and conflict.

- Partners in relational transition: dating, opening up, reconnecting, committing, uncoupling or breaking up.

- Partners exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory or other non-conventional intimacies (whether you are just starting or have been in it for a while) who are seeking competent and non-judgemental support.

- People who know, deep down, that the body keeps the score — and who want to go further than talk therapy to connect with their body’s innate wisdom and heal at a core level.

- Women experiencing disconnection or blockage in intimacy and sexuality who desire to feel more confidence, freedom and pleasure.

- People of all gender identities, and sexual and relational orientations (LGBTQ+) who experience significant stress in intimate relationships and who would like to form and maintain satisfying and secure bonds.

- Individuals who may be aware that they have a history of early childhood or sexual trauma and who desire to be expertly held and guided on their healing journey.

Testimonials

"Having worked with several coaches and counsellors over the years, Naomi is incomparable in her approach and thoughtfulness as a coach and somatic practitioner. With tremendous generosity, she holds a one-of-a-kind space for profound growth and processing of complex emotions. Her blend of graceful, insightful leadership and deep listening and reflection makes her style of work feel both rigorous and gentle. She graciously encourages and receives feedback to co-create our sessions together and ensure we maintain trust and a shared vision. She has provided me with invaluable tools that I have used for years to feel more present in my body, my sensuality, my joy, my grief, my anger, my gratitude, and much more. My work with her has inspired and transformed my experience of my life and enriched my presence for myself and others."

- Michelle R.